The DirtMonkies Make Cupcakes

Every once in a while I completely lose my mind and decide to let the kids cook. They always have a good time, while I get to clean and try to keep them from eating raw eggs and the like.

I noticed two things with these videos.

1. The chipped paint on the pantry wall by the table looks horrid.
2. The chairs really need to be re-covered.

So, I grabbed my touch up paint and fixed the chips. Tomorrow the seats of those chairs are getting new covers. I hope hubby's staple gun isn't out of ammo. You tend to forget to fix the little things until they get crudded out. But, if I'm going to vlog more, it has to get done!

The kids and I love to cook and just hang out in the kitchen. Hubby and I loiter by the coffee pot, sharing gossip. Yes, we gossip with each other. Usually about family members. It's fun to find out what men say when they chatter!

In fact- the kids are in there right now. Lucas, the 9 month old, is learning to walk in there. He doesn't like to walk on the carpet for some reason.



The Fletcher kids mix it up!


Even a bump on the head doesn't keep Amboo from baking.

Lucas fusses, so this one ends quickly.




I wanted to share this, not only because my kids are just so darned cute, but because Samsung has a really cool giveaway going on. It's called "Where Is The Heart Of Your Home?"

Samsung is giving away a washer and dryer to the blog post that has the most comments on it! If you're a friend or reader of this blog, you know that my washer and dryer both went kaput a while back. With 4 kids and a freelancer's salary- I NEED a new set something fierce.

I was checking out their page (Samsung's) and I'm in love with their appliances. Wanna see what I might win ? Go here- http://www.samsung.com/us/consumer/group/group.do?group=homeappliances it has super-cool stuff for your home.

So, help me win! Comment, comment comment! Tell your friends to come see the DirtMonkies in action in our favorite part of the house- the kitchen!

Rebuilding from the ground up




I've been thinking a lot through the past months. I see new writers in the forum I frequent talking about how hard it is to find work. How excruciating it can be to get themselves out there. To find a niche and brand their style. I spoke with Bob Younce from FreelanceWritingGigs in an email concerning branding tactics.

Bob, if you stop by, while I may not have agreed- I get it. Really, I do.

A little over a year ago it became apparent that my writing career was moving far too fast to handle. This can be scary, especially for a freelancer that, while they have talent, their skills in organization fall short of the mark. Like many new to the business, I took on far too much work. In my defense, I had a houseful. Many of you that are close friends know that we had a house full: 3 children, my ill mother, and 4 extras-the Inlaws.

It was too much to deal with, then add in a freelance schedule that grew from a few blog posts a month to writing product descriptions, web site content, SEO, keyword articles, a few magazine articles...and then...(drumroll)...a positive pregnancy test.

Everything came crashing down. Gayla Baer from MomGadget (bless her heart) was my channel manager at b5 Media. I'd applied for and landed a cooking blog- Robust Cooking. Oh, did I have plans. Plans that I couldn't keep. If you're a writer and you've taken on too much, you know exactly what happens. You begin to hide. Each morning you grab your coffee and stare at the computer trying to force out anything, anything at all. If you're experiencing true burnout, nothing comes.

Gayla prodded gently in emails. "I'll get something..I promise" was my reply. Eventually we both came to a conclusion, I had to go. The same day I was sending out resignations all around, I received an email from her letting me know I'd lost the gig. That was the saddest week in my career. It all had grown so fast, but in an uncontrolled way.

You new guys are probably doing one of two things: nodding because you understand or shaking your head and wondering what the heck I'm getting at.
The point is, don't take on too much. Know your limits.
Second point, you can rebuild- if and only if you know what is happening and have the sense to step away and admit you're defeated for the moment.

Today my career has grown in a manageable way. I don't take on too much. I apply for a few jobs a day or week, depending on the workload I already have. Instead of sending out multiple pitches for articles, I send out one or two.

You may have heard that freelancing is feast or famine. This is all too true. The trick to avoiding the famine is having things on the side that can help get you through the lean times. Two years ago I applied to Demand Studios. While accepted, I never used the account until this past week. Today I received my first payment for articles I wrote that will appear on eHow. This is a valuable resource because even if I do not use the account often- it remains open.

I'm not big on revenue share sites, but my views are softening. I've always said, if you have something you can't sell- post it on a revenue share. eHow sends me a little present monthly- all from just a few articles I posted in 2007. It isn't much, but it comes in like clockwork. The same with Associated Content, though they bring in far less. HubPages is another place to post. You get to plug in your own Adsense publisher ID, Amazon code, and more. I personally know one person that brings in enough that I could live off of and remember I have a family of six!

I think I've rambled enough, but I did want to get out this story for new freelancers who might be worried about what happens if they don't make it the first time. There really isn't a first, second, or third time. Your career as a freelance writer is constantly evolving. You grow and your job grows with you. Even if you have to tear it all down and begin again.

School Starts, Gramma Breaks Out Of Nursing Home, Yee-haa!

Here in New York school starts Wednesday.

WHOOPEE!

Lord, I love my kids. I really do. But a full summer of 4 kids all at once?
Yikes.

Amber really needs her routine. Autism amplifies that need a hundredfold. Anyone who has an autistic child, brother,sister, or whathaveyou will understand when I say that it will be a relief for her to get back to school. While she is a ray of sunshine, she can also turn into a raging storm. Quick-like.

Life will return to what we call normalcy. I'm hoping to get a few more things up and running so I can get hubby a new laptop and also replace my failing desktop. The tower has been over-heating, I think the fan has kicked the bucket. I've entered tons of giveaways and contests in hopes of winning one or two to no avail. One of my Twitter followers won a Toshiba laptop and another won a Dell Mini.

Damn them.

In other news- turns out the stove isn't as bad as we thought. Hubby scraped away the melted plastic and discovered that the cord end had overheated, melting the housing. Just the one section of cord was bad, the connectors on the actual range are fine. We're going to replace the cord, which if everything works fine, will save us a few hundred bucks.

My mom is in the hospital
again. It seems that her little trip brought on by her 'mad fit'...wait, did I write about that? She was ticked because someone didn't show up to take her to a funeral, so she decided to go speeding down the sidewalks and roads through town would be a great idea. Mom roared down the streets on her Hoveround, I had a great time visualizing her shaking an angry fist at motorists, probably not the case though, to my grandma's house.

I am pretty darn sure she went over 5 miles. Don't take that as gospel, but I think that's about right. The only way it would have been cooler would be if she's had her new prosthetic leg on and listened to me about painting flames on it and the powerchair.

Ok. That truly amusing episode seemed to have ended safely. Just a little self directed field trip. Except for the fact that now she has pneumonia and a blood infection from her amputation. Just talked to her-she seems to sound a heck of a lot better than last night, so I'm not worried. She was laughing over my description of her nursing home jail-break, so consider this post
Mama Sparks approved.

OMG, I'm Spazztastic!

Seriously, I'm all quirky happy right now.

I recently had a nasty experience with another freelancer that made me want to cry, throw down my hard drive, and give up. After a couple hours of wallowing in the 'poor me's', I gathered up my britches and pitched an article idea on the dark side of freelancing to Deb Ng over at FWJ. The idea was on the nasty little creatures I call Venomous Freelancers.

When Deb replied shortly to the pitch and told me to go for it...I literally got a tingly-happy-whoopee! feeling. For you guys who don't know it- FWJ is Freelance Writing Gigs, a site that is well known for posting daily job leads for freelance writers. Not only are there job leads, but there are tons of fun, informational, and interesting posts to help you in your writing career.

It's the number one site for freelancers. Not only that- it's the Holy Grail of blogging to so many of us.

And I got in.

I got posted.

Go. Look. WHEEE!!!!!!

The Venomous Freelancer- By Julie Fletcher


P.S. Deb, when I calm down and can write something that isn't going to be mostly Squee! and Woot!, I'll come comment. Thanks for letting me pitch! Can you tell I'm goofball-happy?

7 Truths About Freelancing From Home

Deb Ng over at Freelance Writing Jobs has a cute post on freelance writers that made me grin. It's the Top 10 Ways to Tell You’re a Freelance Writer. While I was laughing, I started thinking about some of the things I hear when I tell people that I write for a living. What to tell them or what I have said, too.


“Oh, wow! I read a lot.”
This one is always good for a smile. You explain nothing, they're just impressed that you can string words together.




“It must be nice to stay home all day and not have to work.”
Uh. Excuse me? While I don't willingly wake up at 4 A.M. to get work done like some freelancers I know of, that doesn't mean I don't work. I spend quite a bit of my day-each and every day- working on something or another. From about 9 A.M. to 11 P.M., how many people that 'work' have those hours?



“Neat! What kind of book have you written?”
I'm working on two supernatural novels. One is Horror and the other is Horror Romance. I've also sent a manuscript to an agent for a toddler board book. Annnnd....there's a book on pregnancy in the works. Yep, my interests run the gambit. But, no nothing has been published yet.



“Oh. So you've been in magazines?”
Technically, yes. For a year I was a columnist, then contributing editor to an online magazine. There's been a few articles in a local parenting magazine here in New York and in Louisiana. No, I haven't been in O, Cosmopolitan, Woman's Day, or the Weekly World News.



“If you don't have any books written and you're not in those magazines, what DO you write?”
You can watch the people begin to float away mentally when you try to describe blogging, web content, SEO, and how to write for the web. I swear, if you ever really want to start the Zombie Apocalypse, broadcast a blogging SEO seminar across every radio station and every television channel.



“Why aren't you rich?”
Here's the part of trying to explain that it doesn't matter how good you are, if no one replies to your email, you're out of a job. Or article. Sometimes people don't pay up. It is hard for people outside of this career to understand that we work globally in many cases and it can be impossible to collect payment from skips.



“Why don't you get a real job?”
Because I love being with my kids. Hanging out and having coffee with my husband while I pore over job posting. I love the creativity, the glowing emails from clients, the long nights, and yes-even the rejections.


And guess what? I have a REAL job.

Weekend Writer Giveaway Winner

I'm sorry for posting this so late, but the winner of the Weekend Writer eBook Giveaway is:

Bitingthe penny! Here's their blog: Biting The Penny (on being frugal)

Thanks for entering and I hope to hear from our winner on what they think of The Weekend Writer by Denene Brox soon.